Masculinity cannot exist without femininity. On its own, masculinity has no meaning, because it is but one half of a set of power relations. Masculinity pertains to male dominance as femininity pertains to female subordination.

Sheila Jeffreys
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It is hard to be a man. It is hard to be an independent person because other people are always telling you what to do. You are not supposed to be emotional or express your feelings. You are supposed to be strong, not weak.

If you show weakness, then the world will crumble around you. However, it is easy to be a woman. The world will always forgive you for being weak and it is easier to be emotional.

Source: Unpacking Queer Politics

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